TAKE THE FREAK TEST
HAVE YOU EVER :
1. HAD SEX ? ( 5 PTS.)
2. ORAL SEX ? GIVING ( 5PTS. ) RECEIVEING ( 2 PTS.)
3. LICKED ASS ( 6 PTS ) STICK YOUT TONGUE IN HIS/HER ASS ( 10 PTS. )
4. PRACTICE BONDAGE ( 5 PTS. ) WITH MORE THAN 1 PERSON AT SAME TIME (10 PTS.)
5. ANAL SEX ( 5 PTS. )…
My score…288. Looking at it in writing makes me wet just thinking about half the stuff I’ve done!!!!
u know u are a swinger when
1. Half of the numbers on your cell phone are listed only by screen names.
2. You know most of your friends’ names only as couples but you don’t know their last names.
3. You had already seen pictures of your friends naked before you ever met them in person.
Most if these for us are soooo true!
Why would you WANT to be a swinger? Now that we are, that seems like a silly question, who wouldn’t?!? I think there are many reasons people start swinging. I never would have considered it in my past relationships and I guess looking back on it now, I think I wanted to establish our relationship before I considered the lifestyle. The first two years went by fast; we got married and had a baby. I knew we loved each other very much. We were best friends first and then fell in love. We had a very stable marriage. So, I began to toy with the idea. Although he never tried to talk me into it, a small part of me did want to do it for my husband. He played as a single before we started dating. At first the whole thought of it was weird to me. The wildest things I had ever done were kiss a girl and have sex in a hotel bed while somebody slept in the other. Never did I have sex with someone watching, let alone my husband watching me with someone else! But the more I thought about it, the more I was turned on. So I guess the answer to the question, why did I want to be a swinger was good old fashioned sex. My husband and I are both sexual people. I believe we could have kept each other very happy without swinging, but it adds a whole new level to that good old fashioned sex! I know it sounds so cliché but it really did add to our already wonderful sex life. Another reason we have fun in the lifestyle, is the chase. We love finding men, women and couples and pursuing them. We all remember what it’s like to start a new relationship. The excitement, the newness, the “strange” as my husband calls it, with swinging it never stops! Of course, reasons change and different things keeps you in the lifestyle, but this is where it started for us.
Most people’s first question to my husband and I is “How did he get you to do this?”. The short answer is he did not “get” me to do anything.
I met my husband about 11 years ago, we were friends for about 4 years before we started dating. By rumor, I found out he was a swinger. We had a couple discussions about it and he was very honest with me, but it wasn’t really a concern of mine as we were just friends at the time. When we started to realize we had feelings for each other, we had the discussion again. I had no interest in this lifestyle and he agreed to give it up for us. I trusted that decision and he never gave me a reason not to.
Move forward about 2 years…
I began thinking about trying the lifestyle, so I eventually brought it up to my husband. He was shocked to say the least but of course he was game. I also want to add, he never brought up the idea to me or tried to talk me into it. He answered some questions, we laid down some ground rules and I guess you could say the rest is history. Why did I want to do this? That’s a story for another day. But this decision, for us, has made us a stronger more loving couple and I have never regretted it.
So I am going to write this blog to give a female perspective on the lifestyle and I hope you all enjoy!